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Israel 2.0

Last summer I came to Israel with a team of High School students from my church.  We had a great experience walking in Jesus’ footsteps as well as seeing all of the Holy Land.   While here we started the conversation about what it would look like to bring families in 2011.  We knew it would be a pretty pricey trip  but we decided to push it anyways because we felt that providing that experience would be of huge value.

So here I am again. I’m currently sitting about 1 block from the beach in Tel Aviv.  Parts of our team are on 3 different airplanes coming here from Ethiopia, London and Dallas.  They are due to start arriving in about six hours.  We had only a couple snafoos in the last week when one passport was discovered to be almost expired and unfortunately a student broke his leg and couldn’t come with us.  The passport problem was resolved the morning of and one of our amazing volunteers said yes when I told him had had 15 minutes to decide if he wanted to come to Israel at our expense.

I’m always very hopeful and prayerful as a trip gets started. I have been doing trips in the Student Ministry world for almost 20 years but this is the first time I’ve done a trip like this aimed at families.  I feel really blessed for those who are coming too as they are all amazing and many which I have great relationships with.

So here we go. 10 days of praying and believing that the Bible will be opened to our team like never before. That this trip would transform faith and make our relationship with God different.  That we might be changed here and go home changed.

On another note I’m totally wiped out.  I hate Jet Lag. I’ve been here 2 nights already and last night I barely slept at all.  This afternoon is going to be rough.   But, I’m making good use of this time and doing some writing.

Shalom

Is it really a sin to bore a student with the Gospel?

Istock_000003649562xsmall I'll probably take some flack for this post but I'm ok with that.  Today I was on a long drive and I'm not sure why but the often quoted thought "It's a sin to bore a student with the gospel" came across my brain.  As I was driving I started to think about this concept and what it has done to youth ministry.  

I want to fully declare this idea 100% unbiblical and false.

 Unfortunately though many churches, camps and parachurch groups have grabbed this thought and have made it the focus of their programs.   So much energy, money, talent and thought has gone into creating "programs" that don't bore students.  

But is the responsibility really on us for students not to be bored?  As usual in my posts I want to point the finger at myself more than others.  I grew up in youth ministries that had very little resources but I don't ever remember being bored.  The responsibility to not be bored with Church and the Gospel wasn't put on my youth pastor. It was put on my shoulders.  They gave me every opportunity to live an exciting life following Jesus but I often didn't take it.  

This idea about boredom has created youth ministries that are all about excitement and hyped programs.  Those who have bought into it (and I did for a long time) believe that if kids don't go home so "stoked" about Jesus (which we mean our program) that we have done something wrong.

I tend to always try to go back to Jesus times and the early church and see what was going on.  It certainly wasn't boring.  Following Jesus was tough.  There were so many things happening all the time and the followers of Jesus didn't always understand what he was doing and they took  a lot of heat for it. 

In our Youth Ministries many of us have taken on a role where we feel responsible to make the Gospel "attractive" and "exciting" for students.  I don't think what we're presenting though is the real Gospel.  Following Jesus isn't always exciting.  Often it is incredibly difficult. It's tedious and messes up our worldly plans.  It can be difficult to think about the Death and Resurrection and how we have to live our lives in a new way when we accept what Jesus did for us and ask for forgiveness for our sins.  

I don't want students to be bored.  I also don't want the Gospel to be boring. But, I don't feel like it's my responsibility for changing it to making it more exciting for students.  

Hear me when I say this.  If you are bored with the Gospel or the Gospel is boring you then maybe the responsibility lies on you to change.  I can only present it one way because there is only one Gospel. If you are truly living a life where you are following Jesus then you won't be bored.  

 

The Nativity Dance one year later.

Last year our youth staff team decided to try something new in presenting the Nativity Story to our students.  Every year we do a month long event we call "Club Christmas" where we try to change things up and do something they don't expect.  This video got a bunch of hits last year but I'm assuming not all of you saw it so I'm putting it out there again. 

Here's ours.

 

For those of you who aren't quite so hip to pop cultures you might want to click this link  and watch the video we were spoofing.  

 

I’m tired of talking to Christians

Yesterday I wrote a post that generated a lot of traffic.  Not everyone was happy with it but it was something I really felt needed to be said.   I was angry about how a group of pastors decided to boycott a bus company because the busses had a slogan on the side that they disagreed with.  

I spent a lot of time today reflecting on the comments that were made about my post.  There were a couple of people that commented who were self proclaimed atheists or non-believers.  I loved what they had to say.   But,  it also shook me up because I realized that most of them had never had a pastor free them up to admit their doubts and concerns.  And most of them had never had someone like me just sit and dialogue with them about spiritual things. 

Here's the truth: I am tired of talking to Christians.  

Let me explain what I mean by that statement:  I'm a huge fan of people who believe in Jesus and are living a life following him.  I get to be with a bunch of those people every day at my church.  There are some amazing families and students who are walking with Jesus. I also work with  an incredible church staff that love Jesus too and are reaching out to the world.  But, there is a difference between claiming to be a "Christian" and following Jesus with your life. 

My friend Adam wrote a blog post a few weeks back that rocked me pretty good. He is a youthworker and a dad and wrote a blog to his church telling them essentially to go and reach the lost and not to worry about his kids because they were growing up in a home with parents who loved Jesus.  

So here's my challenge: We are entering a Holiday season that is all about Jesus and his birth. But, we have to be really careful in the Church that we don't make make this season about us.  Our Christmas programs and events are often inward focused.  So,  how can we look outside the walls of our churches and ourselves?  I am a fan of reaching out to Christmas/Easter Christians and want them to know that we'd love to engage with them the rest of the year.  But, I'm less interested in them because they've at least heard the good news.  I am mostly hoping we can engage people who are willing to admit they don't believe. 

I want to be fully honest here and say I know that I'm a failure in this area.  I'm really good at talking to Christians. I'm great at propping myself up with my education, degrees and knowledge.  But, I'm just not as comfortable sitting next to someone on a bench and asking them what they believe and why.  Have I become that which frustrates me?  Probably.  But, I hope that these blogs will force me out of easy simple world. I'm thankful that people who don't believe what I believe read this blog.  I want us to stay in dialogue.

I ended yesterdays blog with this statement: 

So if you don't need God I'd love to talk to you. Not to "convert" you or "change" you but to just have a conversation and to share some of my honest thoughts about all of this.  If you want to get on a bus and go for a ride I'm cool with that. 

Here's a challenge to the Bus company with those signs. Let's actually fill a bus with people and have a dialogue about faith.  Let's provide a place where those who fully doubt all of this to be free to express those doubts.  I hope that I can be a person that they will want to talk to. I love Jesus but I also realize that many of them don't and I'm ok with that.  But, let's talk. I promise to listen and to think and to engage. It's not my goal to covert you.  But, I do want to listen. 

 

Little Town of Bethlehem Movie Screening Nashville: @NYWC Friday Night @ 10:15pm #nywc

Come check out a great documentary. Friday night in Nashville at the National Youth Workers Convention. It plays at the Renaissance Hotel at 10:15pm.  

Large_poster Little Town Of Bethlehem, a documentary film, follows the story of three men of three different faiths and their lives in Israel and Palestine. The story explores each man’s choice of nonviolent action amidst a culture of overwhelming violence.

Their three stories are interwoven through the major events of the Osraeli-Palestinian conflict, starting with the 1972 massacre at the Munich Olympics. Sami, Yonatan an Ahmad each describe the events from their unique perspective, interjecting personal reflections and explaining how these events led them to become involved in the nonviolence movement.

 

All three men have had their lives threatened by members of their own communities as a result of their work. Each influenced by MLK and Ghandi, Sami, Yonatan and Ahmad continue to embrace their common humanity and equality for all daring to have the hope that peace can be achieved through nonviolent struggle. 

What People are Saying about Little Town of Bethlehem

There are few subjects which bring up such strong – and polarized – reactions as the Israel-Palestine conflict. Many of us hope and pray for a breakthrough that will get us beyond the longstanding impasse of entrenched positions. Little Town of Bethlehem could help bring about such a breakthrough, showing us the nonviolent power of faith, hope, and love embodied in a Christian, a Muslim, and a Jew.

Brian McLaren; author/speaker/activist (brianmclaren.net)

The production values and artistic sensibilities are remarkably strong for a documentary about one of the most neuralgic situations on the globe. This makes a painful story a pleasure to watch.

David Neff, Christianity Today Editor-In-Chief; (5 stars)

This new educational documentary is an excellent catalyst for more discussion regarding peace and the nonviolent peace movement. Our students benefit from dialogue with people not so much older than themselves who have made the difficult choice to pursue justice nonviolently amid violence.

Eve Spangler; Associate Professor of Sociology; Boston College (http://www.bc.edu/)

Most films will entertain you. Good films will educate you as well. Brilliant films will engage and move you to action. Once in a while along comes a film that motivates you to become a participant rather than spectator. This is one of those rare films.

Stephen Sizer; Vicar of Christ Church, Virginia Water UK (www.StephenSizer.com)

 

Feeling so fly like a Cheese Stick like a Cheese Stick.

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I was reminded the other day that it only takes a slight variance in something for it to take on a totally different meaning.  I was in the car with my five year old daughter and the song "Like a G6" came on by Far East Movement.    I'd heard the song a few times before and on our local blog the Park Cities People had a short post on it a while back.  So I decided to listen.   About half way through the first hook I heard my daughter from the back seat say "Hey, I have a Cheese Stick"  and she held it up.    I started laughing because her simple statement made the song have a totally different meaning.  Later I tweeted it out and I've had a ton of friends text me when they heard the Cheese Stick song.  

Here's the lyrics for the hook.  

Poppin bottles in the ice, like a blizzard
When we drink we do it right gettin slizzard
Sippin sizzurp in my ride, like Three 6
Now I’m feelin so fly like a G6
Like a G6, Like a G6
Now I’m feelin so fly like a G6

So here's my short thought on this.  A couple weeks ago I heard Steve Argue teach an amazing seminar on "Content and Context."  He has set up the leadership model of his youth ministry to divide job descriptions up in this way.  On my own team we are doing it similar this year too. We've got an amazing content creator guy named Austin Ariail.  He's a DTS grad who lives and breathes content.  He provides us with resources that we then have to put int he right "context" for the students in the individual ministries to hear. 

The problem arrises though when we "miss it" by even just a little bit.  If the content is off just a bit or the person doing the contextualization errors by just a little then we have the possibility of teaching something that is heard in a vastly different way.   It seems pretty clear to me that Western Christianity and the modern church is teaching a vastly different version of the Gospel than it was probably originally taught.   We have the results to prove it that students are leaving their faith in huge numbers when they get to college.  

I'm not going to tell you what a G6 is.  You can Google it and figure it out.  I will only say that it is about as far from a "cheese stick" as it could be.   I'm not going to tell you what your students are learning about Jesus at your youth ministry.  I will only pray that the divide between the real Jesus and the perceived Jesus by all our students is not such great a divide. 

 

How You Can Help Haiti

Haiti needs help and you have gifts, skills and talents that are needed.

Before coming to Haiti I questioned how I might be used here. I knew that I had a purpose to care for people and to tell their stories. But, I didn't quite know how that might work in reality.

Then I met the grandmother caring for 3 kids with no food, water or a decent tent. She has physical needs.

Then I met a little girl who just wanted to hold my hand. I don't know what happened to her parents. She had an emotional need.

Then I met two whole villages of people. They had physical, emotional and spiritual needs.

Today we met needs. God opened doors of justice being done as we used our gifts and skills to step into the role of an advocate for a people. This needs to continue.

There is absolutely a place here in Haiti for youth groups to come and serve. Partner with a great organization like www.adventures.org and come meet needs.

If you can't come to Haiti there are still many things you can do. Get involved with other organizations and send aid. Partner with local Haitian pastors and build bridges. And pray. Haiti will need lots of that. Right now a new spiritual awakening seems to be happening here and it needs to be covered with prayer.

There is too much here for a few people to do. I'm tired and overwhelmed after only 4 days. Haiti needs you. With all of us and God all things are possible.


How You Can Help Haiti

How You Can Help Haiti

How You Can Help Haiti

Repost: Haiti. Turn our mourning into dancing

 

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The first thought I had when I woke up this morning was guilt.  I was lying in bed pretty comfortable and I began to think about the tent city I had visited yesterday and the conditions that the kids I spent time with were living in.  None of them had beds, breakfast or a shower.  

We had a prayer time right after breakfast and I began to break down and weep because I couldn’t reconcile my situation with theirs.   I found myself drawn to the scriptures and in particular to the book of Psalms.

 

Psalm 5:11-12 “But let all who take refuge in you be glad;  let them ever sign for joy.  Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you. For surely, O Lord, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield.

 

This spoke to me in particular because I kept seeing people yesterday who seemed to be "glad" in spite of the difficult situation that they were in.

 

We headed out to visit with a Haitian pastor and as we were driving down the street we saw this:

 

Our translators told us that what was happening in Haiti had never happened before.  People dancing and singing in the streets.  I shot this video and was amazed at the joy that the people had on their faces.

A few minutes later we went to a tent village to meet with some pastors.   A pastor that I was shaking hands with told me "Watch, here comes my church",   sure enough at that moment his entire congregation began walking across the field towards the church praying and shouting.  He asked us to come to his church which we did. 

Of course when you are asked to "come" to a church in most 3rd world countries you are almost always escorted to a seat at the front and asked to preach.  I turned to my good friend Rhett and said.  "You go first"  Rhett stood up and immediately started weeping and sharing a powerful message.  I had the opportunity to follow him and I talked about the amazing stream of people as they came out of the prayer services yesterday.  Just then Anne Jackson and Jeremy Zach walked in and were also asked to preach.  

I had intended to end this post tonight by putting up pictures of the church we preached at and to show how in spite of their situation and the conditions of the church they are dancing and singing. 

But……the bandwith is dead.  I'll redo this post when I get some more speed.

Needless to say I was affected today by feeling guilty but then seeing an amazing resilient church worshiping and dancing and praising God and it changed me. 

Haiti: The difficult side of providing food.

Today I headed into a refuge tent village with 6 protein bars in my pocket that my son Soren’s class at Bradfield Elementary had given me to pass out. I had hope that I would be able to help people. I felt like I was doing some good at least as I met with the first 6 people.


Then I gave away the last protein bar…..


The 7th person who came and found me had a story about how she was caring for her 3 grandchildren because her daughter had died in the earthquake. My heart broke as she showed us where they were living.


And I had nothing to give her……


We prayed for her and told her that other groups would come but that didn’t provide for her need right then.

As I walked away I was struggling with feeling useless because I had been unable to do much for this village. My 6 protein bars seemed like such  small things as I began to think about all the destruction that I had seen earlier.

Today was the National Day of prayer and fasting. Haitian Christians came together in huge groups all over the city to pray for Haiti. We saw 10’s of Thousands of people coming  to pray.

I think God is doing something amazing with Haitian churches. They are small but today they made a big impact.

The same happened with my protein bars today. Hundreds of thousands needed food. I was able to help 6 and that was it.


I was just a part…...


Jesus did something pretty significant once with just a few loaves of bread and some fish. It doesn’t take a lot of resources if Jesus is in it.

Haiti girl

The End of Bible Study…Or at least the phrase in my vocabulary.

Bible-study For a while now I've been thinking a lot about how the Christian Community tends to use the phrase "Bible Study"  and I've come to a decision that I'm going to move away from trying to identify any particular group with that terminology anymore.

First some background.  I'm from the West Coast.  I've been involved in the Church for many years and have been a career paid youth minister for a long time.  I'm a huge proponent of small group ministries and think that is where the life of the Church needs to happen. 

I've called them "Core Groups" for a long time and my working definition is a group of students (usually under 15) who are committed to regularly meeting and exploring life and faith together with one or two great leaders who love Jesus.  I've had several great experiences with these types of groups both from a leading standpoint (Bel Air Pres Class of 2003) and watching my wife lead several groups at a couple different churches.  The key part of these groups for me was the part where we lived life and faith together. 

Typically these groups would meet for 2 hours. We'd eat pizza, talk about relationships, families, struggles and at some point would talk about faith. Often we studied a passage of scripture and how it was applying to the night but more often than not we spent the most of our night providing practical theological insight to the students on how to "Live Out" their faith in their lives.  We found that this was a better place to start because it engaged the students in the practical outcomes of how to live their faith and then they would often want to have more deeper insight.

One of my favorite things now is to see these groups again several years or more after they have graduated and still have a cohesion and a purpose when they come together.  Going around the table and asking the questions: "Where is God in your life?"  "Where do you want him to be?" "What's in the way?" "How can I help?"  is something they've heard from me 100's of times while I lead their groups.

So back to the "Bible Study" phrase.  Let me first say I am a fan of studying the Bible and correctly interpreting the scriptures I just have come to realize that for many believers that studying the Bible is the end for their faith and not the beginning.  

Using the phrase "Bible Study" to describe any group often can give them a singular focus and can be a limiting factor to allowing new students to join.  I seems to be much harder to invite a friend to a "Core Group" than it does to a "Bible Study". 

In the Western Evangelical Christian world we have often taken the word "Church" to describe the 1 hour service which happens on a Sunday morning.  Because of that we tend to equate "Good" or "Bad" church experiences and teaching around the 20-minute sermon that is given by the pastor.  But "Church" is much more than that 20-minute experience each week though right?  Yet, how many of us have been guilty of complaining about a pastors message and have called it not "Deep enough" or "Lacking meat"  How robust is your "church" experience if your only interaction with your church community is during that 1 hour service?

I often interact with parents who's students are involved in multiple weekly Bible studies and they rave about what their students are learning  and the value they place on the "education" they are receiving about the Bible.  I'm usually not very supportive of parents who focus their attention on the curriculum or the words ending in "-ology" that their kids know.  I'm also not particularly fond of groups that have taken students out of their faith community and don't provide a place for students to serve or grow in the context of their Church.

So back to my original idea.  I'm not a fan of calling anything a "Bible Study" anymore.  Instead I'm going to start using the phrase  "Bible Living."  Let's place the importance of learning the Word of God  as it applies to living out our lives.   We don't hide in a room with a concordance a dictionary and a Bible learning complex theological concepts. Instead we open up our Bibles on the street, in the broken home, with our friends who we know are doing things they shouldn't, in front of the TV that depicts negative things, as we download music illegally, in the midst of gossiping about that other person,  at football practice, with our boyfriend, girlfriend,  at the mall and everywhere else where we are "living". 

Too many students and families compartmentalize their faith elevating the "Knowledge" of the Bible without elevating the "Practice" of living it out.  I'm advocating a change to how we teach and we live that we don't graduate students who know all "the stories" but that we graduate students who know "Their Story" and how putting it in context of the scriptures and God's ultimate plan for humanity changes how they live their lives. 

The Church needs to graduate students who understand how to "Live out their Faith."  We don't have time anymore to waste graduating Biblically literate students who know Bible stories and concepts yet who's lives look nothing different from everyone else at their colleges.

Do not "Study" the Bible.  "Live" the Bible.

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