Archive - November, 2010

Youth Ministry Planning: Sometimes I obsess a little bit

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I can get a little obsessive when it comes to planning.  I've been known to do a ton of preplanning and research when I am thinking about doing something.  Over the years it's always been my goal to try and out plan parents and students so that my summer calendar is done and published before they plan their vacations.  The summer of 2011 is no exception.  

This year we decided to do a Houseboat trip for our High School ministry.  At first we were planning on going south to a lake in Texas but it was a bit too close to the Mexican border and with everything going on there just didn't seem the right fit.  So I started researching about 10 different options.  

I generally start my research on Google Maps and look at spots that are within a decent driving distance. For this trip we looked at everything from the Colorado river lakes (Powell, Mead, Mojave and Havisu) to Missouri lakes and the south including Arkansas.  We looked at bus cost, taking vans and flying.   Google is a huge help too as I tend to look for reviews, feedback and other sites that might give information about where we are thinking of going. 

This year we have a very short window for our trip May 31-June 4 so we couldn't do a ton of travel time.  So I basically limited my looking to places that were within about 8 hours of driving. We're also trying to reduce costs this year so if we can get away without taking a charter bus that would be a huge thing. But, the only way to do that is to take church vans and have parents come along and drive too. That adds some complexity to the trip.  

But, we found a spot in Arkansas that I think will be perfect.  I'll know just how perfect when we head out there soon to go and check it out and take some videos. But from what I've done with Google Earth checking out the lake the location seems perfect. 

The above part of this post seems a little rambly so here's a few things I take into consideration when planning trips:

1. What does our group need?  This summer we need to build community in our youth group. We're moving the 8th graders up for this trip and are really reaching out to the younger grades to build some cohesion for our group.  We have a great ski trip happening in December that will help meet this need too so this summer trip will build upon that. 

2. What type of trip meets that need?  We could do a ton of different things but a houseboat trip totally meets our need this summer as it will be just our group for 4 days on a lake without any outside influences.  I've done houseboat trips with two other churches and these type of trips built community in ways no other trip can.  We've taken students to camps before but when you add a bunch of other students from other churches in the mix the same community building doesn't happen. 

3. What resources do we have to pull off this type of trip?  I'm hoping to have some financial resources given to us to make this trip happen. I also have a number of parents, volunteer staff and paid staff who would be willing to go.  I've done this a lot so have some expertise in this type of trip.   I generally look at resources before I look at anything else when planning trips.  The only part of this trip that is tough is that I'm the only one who has done this type of trip before.  

4. How can we sell it?  This is one of the harder parts of this type of trip.  At both churches where I have done this type of trip before the first year we did it was a small year of attendance. But, then the next year we'd almost double in size as students generally are the best suited to "sell" other students on a trip.  But, with that said we have the need for community now so convincing students who have never heard of a houseboat trip before is a tough sell.  The way we are doing it this year is by focusing on the transition and the connection issue with parents. I'm being totally straightforward and telling parents that if they want their students to connect with our high school ministry then this trip will make it happen.  The 120 hour principle is helpful here too.  If a student comes on this trip we will spend 120 hours with them.  If they come to our HS ministry every Sunday morning for a year we'll spend 52 hours with them.  More is better.  

There's a lot more to the planning I do but I should probably just say that obsessing is a good thing in this area.  I like the Good to Great philosophy here and so I spend a lot of time thinking about how I can make a good trip a great trip.  I try to know as much information about the trip and the company we are working with and the location we are going so that we have answers to all potential problems before they happen.  

I'd love some feedback about how you start out from scratch planning things.  I know someone will say "prayer" first so let me say that the reason that's not mentioned is it's a given.  

Youth Ministry Unconference in Dallas Dec 6-7

I'm excited to let you know about something that I'm going to be a part of in Dallas in December.  A couple months ago I was with a few friends and we started kicking around an idea about how we could actively engage youthworkers in Dallas to pray and dream.  This idea was born out of that and is now being championed by my friend Mark Matlock.  

So it's called the Youth Ministry Unconference and it's free.  

Here's some info about it:

So far there has been great response to the Youth Ministry UnConference we’ll be hosting in Dec, including youth ministers in several other cities wanting to do the same in their communities. Many questions have come my way about this event, so I’d like to answer them now (please ask more if you have them).

Is this only for youth workers in the DFW area?

No. Absolutely not. In fact, we already have registrations from youth workers coming in from other states to join us on this day. If you can make it to DFW please come.

What is an “unconference”?

If you’re like me when I go to conventions some of the best moments are not the general sessions and seminars (although I do believe they have value). Often I find the real energy at a convention to be the “in between” spaces like meals and breaks when paths cross and spontaneous meetings happen. That’s when the sparks fly! The “unconference” format attempts to build an event that is made primarily of “coffee break” energy.

There are no speakers or seminars. The event is based on a loose set of principles  that allow the event to take shape based on who shows up and what is important to them. Rather than a person or committee planning the direction of the event from the top down, the event “self organizes” from the bottom up. You’ve probably never experienced anything like this, so you need to come.

What is the advantage of doing this?

The idea behind this gathering is to get around some of the limitations at other events that hinder innovation. One of the primary beliefs driving this format is that the whole of people in the room are better than one person in front of the room. So together we identify problems and find solutions rather than one person doing this from the top down. Having a diversity of experiences and talents in a focused environment allows for inovations and breakthroughs. Come prepared to be surprised.

What does the room look like in an “unconference” setting?

Chairs are arranged in circles that fill the room, people are moving from circle to circle, people are having animated conversation, others are listening, some are taking notes to share with everyone. It’s electric.

Why two days?

Sometimes the best ideas come after “sleeping on it”. So we want to be sure we give ample time to collaborate, think, play and rest too.

What happens Monday night?

I realize some people will live close by and want to go home, others may choose to stay in hotels. But many of us are planning on eating together and hanging out to keep conversations and relationships moving. If you have to go home, that’s fine, we’ll see you Tuesday morning. If not, we’ll be hanging out. Several youth pastors and local church families are hosting others in their homes so there aren’t hotel expenses. If  you’d like to host or be hosted let us know.

What do you hope happens?

One focusing question will launch our work together for the day: “What do we need to learn, share, or create to meet the spiritual needs of teenagers?” My hope is that we leverage the wisdom of those attending to answer this question. While I imagine we will solve some problems on location, our time together may be the trigger for results in the days and years that follow.

Is it really free?

 Yes, you must register as space is limited, but the event is free. There are no pitches or marketing messages from sponsors of any kind. Obviously any gathering costs something (including your time to attend). Irving Bible Church is graciously letting us use their building free of charge, and many people are donating their time to organize the event. So for some it isn’t free, but their gift is making it free for those who attend (meals, lodging, travel of course is your responsibility). You can register here.

More questions? Ask away.

 

Little Town of Bethlehem Movie Screening Nashville: @NYWC Friday Night @ 10:15pm #nywc

Come check out a great documentary. Friday night in Nashville at the National Youth Workers Convention. It plays at the Renaissance Hotel at 10:15pm.  

Large_poster Little Town Of Bethlehem, a documentary film, follows the story of three men of three different faiths and their lives in Israel and Palestine. The story explores each man’s choice of nonviolent action amidst a culture of overwhelming violence.

Their three stories are interwoven through the major events of the Osraeli-Palestinian conflict, starting with the 1972 massacre at the Munich Olympics. Sami, Yonatan an Ahmad each describe the events from their unique perspective, interjecting personal reflections and explaining how these events led them to become involved in the nonviolence movement.

 

All three men have had their lives threatened by members of their own communities as a result of their work. Each influenced by MLK and Ghandi, Sami, Yonatan and Ahmad continue to embrace their common humanity and equality for all daring to have the hope that peace can be achieved through nonviolent struggle. 

What People are Saying about Little Town of Bethlehem

There are few subjects which bring up such strong – and polarized – reactions as the Israel-Palestine conflict. Many of us hope and pray for a breakthrough that will get us beyond the longstanding impasse of entrenched positions. Little Town of Bethlehem could help bring about such a breakthrough, showing us the nonviolent power of faith, hope, and love embodied in a Christian, a Muslim, and a Jew.

Brian McLaren; author/speaker/activist (brianmclaren.net)

The production values and artistic sensibilities are remarkably strong for a documentary about one of the most neuralgic situations on the globe. This makes a painful story a pleasure to watch.

David Neff, Christianity Today Editor-In-Chief; (5 stars)

This new educational documentary is an excellent catalyst for more discussion regarding peace and the nonviolent peace movement. Our students benefit from dialogue with people not so much older than themselves who have made the difficult choice to pursue justice nonviolently amid violence.

Eve Spangler; Associate Professor of Sociology; Boston College (http://www.bc.edu/)

Most films will entertain you. Good films will educate you as well. Brilliant films will engage and move you to action. Once in a while along comes a film that motivates you to become a participant rather than spectator. This is one of those rare films.

Stephen Sizer; Vicar of Christ Church, Virginia Water UK (www.StephenSizer.com)

 

Teaching at the National Youth Workers Convention

When I get asked to present or teach I'm always really stoked.  I've been a youth pastor for a long time and there are some things that I've learned the hard way or that I've stumbled upon that I think are really helpful for people.   I'm well aware that there are a ton of great people out there who should be given opportunities to teach.  I'm always hopeful that in the midst of my seminars that I give enough opportunity for engagement so that people who show up can learn from each other.  

The National Youth Workers Convention is this weekend in Nashville. I'll be there with my team and teaching a couple different seminars. 

This year I'm teaching a couple of different seminars.  The first is the same title as my book coming out with Zondervan in September and is called Youth Ministry on a Shoestring: How to do more for Less,  

The second one is a new seminar I'm leading and I'm really interested in seeing how it works.  It's called Large Staff Youth Ministry Leadership. I'm not sure how this one is going to go yet because I'm wondering how many people who have leadership teams like this will want to talk about it. I'm hopeful that this seminar will be an interactive time where the group can talk about best practices and how we all do it.  I'm guessing that you if you lead a large staff you are probably an expert in it already so I'm hoping to get some of these folks together to bless each other.  

So for anyone who has no budget, has had budgets cut or just wants to brainstorm with others how to save money come join me Saturday from 8-9:30am.

If you've got a large staff and want to talk with others about how to lead that team join us on Sunday afternoon at 4pm.

 

Opening up the doors to the National Youth Workers Convention.

I'm pretty stoked for this week.  On Wednesday my team and I are heading to Nashville to be a part of the National Youth Workers Convention.  I've been to a lot of these conventions over the years and it's always the place where I get the most refreshed, cared for and inspired to be a better Youth Pastor. 

I'm doing something different this year and I'm really stoked on it.  I made the decision last spring that we would drive to Nashville. It's about 12 hours away and we're leaving on Wednesday.  I had three  purposes for driving.  First,  it's cheaper which is helpful. .  Second,  it gives my staff some good time together which I feel like we don't really get at the conventions with all going on.  Thirdly,  it allowed me to open up all the extra seats in our vans to people who couldn't afford to get there.  So we have an extra 6 people from 6 different churches in the area who are coming with us. 

If you know me then you know I love networking and resourcing people at smaller churches. I'm excited  that I was able to partners with Youth Specialties to make it happen for people who couldn't afford to go.  So YS picked up some registration costs, I'm covering transportation costs and we're even having some people share hotel rooms with us. 

If you are going to be in Nashville I'd love to connect. 

 

 

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