Archive - January, 2010

Making Some Changes

 Track.Runner Silhouette.(CD021406TI).(3.5x1.46).5472 This is a big birthday year for me.  I made a decision in 2009 that I want to makes some changes in my life and one of those changes was that I wanted to become a runner.   Not sure why this one was on my list but it just felt like something I wanted to do.  I had some encouragement early on from my friend Petey Crowder He started running with me in January of 2009.  His advice to me at the time was to purchase a Nike+ sensor and use it to track my running.   I didn't listen to him and pretty much only lasted a couple months of my new phase.  Then in August he gave me a sensor and I started running again.  

I've now been running pretty regularly for the last five months.  So far I've ran 53 times, for 40 hours, 212 miles, burned 40,000 calories and this month of January I ran 64.15 miles.   This month I ran my three longest runs every in my life and my times keep dropping.  I was in a battle with my friend Todd Porter to see who could run the most miles.  He ran 60 which for him was the most he's ever run too. 

I'm planning on running a half marathon in March.  For me though this running thing is more than just miles and times.  For me running brings a clarity and a focus to my life.  I don't have much of a commute (I walk to work) so running for me brings a great separation between my work life and my home life.  

So I invite you to think about joining me.  The first couple months will be tough.  Last year at this time I could barely run 4 miles and even then I was stopping and walking a lot.  Today I ran 10 miles at a great pace without any stops.  This thing is really fun and I find myself thinking about running every day.  It's not quite an obsession yet but it's pretty darn close.  And….if it becomes an obsession it's a pretty good one to have.

Why I’m going to Haiti.

Yesterday I mentioned in a twitter/facebook status update that in just over two weeks I will be going to Haiti.    I need to say at the start that I’m pretty scared to go but not from a safety standpoint.  I got over the “what if” stuff a long time ago in my life and I just assume now that God is in control and don’t worry about those things as much.   I talked this over with my family and my wife and kids are very supportive of me going and being a part of this trip.  For me having my kids see me responding out of my relationship with Jesus is a hugely important thing.  

I’m scared to go for three reasons:   

First, I have mentioned this to a few people and have got a few negative responses.  Everything from the “Haiti doesn’t need you they need money” comments to the “If you go we’re not committing a team right? ” to the “what do you have to offer?”  I should admit that I struggle with insecurities sometimes and these comments were hard to hear.  But, I also know that at their heart the people who shared these things love the Lord and really want to serve the kingdom.  I haven’t tried to verbalize my response to these comments yet because I’m still working all this out for myself.  

The second reason I’m scared to go is that it meant some serious rearranging of my schedule and potentially disappointing some people.   I have been accused before of being involved in to many things and this fall was particularly busy.  This winter I had only a few things on my plate outside of my normal job but they were important things.  In one case I was leading a team of people to an event and I had to replace myself and apologize both to the place we were going and the people that I was taking.  I’ve turned down at least two big things I’ve been invited too this winter in an attempt to not be gone as much.  It took some juggling but I have made it all work.  

The third reason I’m scared to go is totally personal.  I’m scared that I won’t feel enough compassion.  This is a scary thing to admit here on the blog but I feel like I need to be transparent.  I struggle with compassion.  I struggle with not being emotional enough and I often times can come across as cold and not caring.  Probably should say that this is an area that I’m totally focusing on and trying to figure out in my life too.  In February   I was already starting a 4 month long part-time internship as a hospital Chaplain at a hospital here in Dallas.  I’m doing it at the blessing of my Church and denomination.  It’s part of the ordination process but also something that I have been wanting to do for a long time.  My prayer is that what I learn in this area will greatly impact what God can do with me in the future.  

The team I was asked to be a part of will be going down and serving.  The Goal of the trip is to deliver food and water and other supplies those in need in Haiti.  Also, to motivate and activate thousands of Christian teenagers and young adults to come to Haiti in 2010.  Several of us were asked to go and the organization we are partnering with has been involved in Haiti for a long time and has a very specific plan and a huge history in helping in these types of situations.  

I’ll give more details soon about all of this.  I will just ask at the end that you would pray for me, for our team and for the country of Haiti.  There will obviously be needs for years and years. 

Why Networking is Important.

Pretty scary to get sent a link today that said "you're in a video"   I had forgotten I'd shot this last September.  It pretty much shows my heart for networking though and why I feel like it is so important for youth workers to connect with others.  If you don't have a network or are feeling pretty alone at your church I recommend checking out the National Network of Youth Ministries.


What does it mean to be called?

Been thinking a lot this last week about calling and location.  Maybe the blog isn't the best place to work it all out but I thought I'd do it by asking some basic questions.  I'm going to assume that if you are reading this that you have some sort of faith story and believe that there might be something greater than you that is directing all of this.  "Calling" in my world is a pretty specific type of experience where you are "called" by God into the ministry or to a particular place or location.  Probably hard to define because it is a personal thing and often explanations can sound pretty subjective.  But at the same time in my denomination (PCUSA) we have a process in place that helps to "affirm" the calling of people through the use of committees and other structures where you have to spend quite a bit of time convincing people that this "call" you have is actually real.

It sounds a bit strange I know so I want to ask some questions of people who are both in the Christian Faith and outside of it. My presupposition is that all people feel called to something and I'm wondering what that is for you.  I'd love to have you either comment or e-mail me directly your thoughts.

Here's my simple questions:

1. What are you called to?  I mean here to simply ask wherever you are at in your faith journey what do you feel you are supposed to do? 

2. How do you feel about a particular religion or denomination holding on so tightly to this idea of "calling" to give them direction and ideas of how they should lead and where?

3. If you don't have a Christian Faith how does this idea of being "called" work out in whatever journey you are on?

Bringing Educators and YouthWorkers together

I scratched and itch a couple days ago and got a lot of responses.  I sent out a simple twitter message and a follow up e-mail to some friends asking what they thought about me putting together a radio show/podcast with the  intent of training youth workers and helping bridge the gap between the academy of Youth Ministry Educators and the "on the ground" youth workers.   Several of the responses I received were about my being in a unique position to help bridge this gap because I have had feet in both worlds for quite a while. 

My hypothesis here is that it is more common for a youth worker to have little formal seminary education as they go about their role as  a youth worker.  I'm specifically thinking about smaller churches with solo youth workers or even part-time youth workers and volunteers.  Those Youth Workers who don't have the resources to be able to attend a seminary or youth workers convention many of whom too probably aren't interested.

On the flipside of this many Youth Ministry Educators only interact with those who come to their schools or can afford go to a convention or have the time to buy their books.  Educators often find that it's tough to get outside or off of their academic tower and to interact with the "real world."

Several years ago I was invited to be a part of a Think Tank bringing together University/Seminary Youth Ministry Educators and Youth Pastors with the goal of bridging the Gap.   This was put on by the great folks at the Center for Youth Ministry Training (CYMT) in Nashville.  The head of this organization Dietrich Kirk and his team have had a great vision for this and received a Lilly Grant to make it happen.  I've found the interactions with that group to be an amazing experience and a whole blog post could be devoted to the great Educators and Practitioners who are brought together each year. 

So I'm moving ahead fleshing out this idea a bit more.  I am looking for feedback and ideas that will help me think through this more.

Here's some specific's I'm thinking about now.  Probably a weekly radio show/podcast that would give me a 15 or 30 minute chunk of time to interact with these educators and have them give concrete youth ministry advice for the regular youth worker.  The goal would be to bridge the gap between the academy and the practitioners and give real training both from a theological perspective.  

That's it I wrote this blog in about 10 minutes as I rush to a meeting.  I'd love some feedback.

Relationships Unfiltered with Andrew Root

Today I had the opportunity to interact with Andrew Root on his weekly Blogspot radio program.  Andrew has been doing this for a while now hanging out with Youth Workers and answering questions about his book Relationships Unfiltered.  514JQSV49JL._SL500_AA240_ I had a great time with him and want to make a plug for this book.  I have been doing youth ministry for a while and this book is one of the best I've ever come across that teaches us how to interact with students in a very honest and open way that is also pretty biblical in it's approach.  

I've found Andy to be one of the best new young thinkers in youth ministry and am glad to have the opportunity to spend some time with him.  On that same note if you are interested in engaging in this more you should go and check out the conference they are hosting at Luther Seminary this Spring called FirstThird 

If you want to listen in and click here.  You might enjoy it.  


 

2010 Committment

Last year I made the decision to no longer feel guilty when I didn't write on my blog frequently.  I had gotten to a point where I wasn't enjoying it as much anymore.  The reality of being a long time blogger and the feelings I had about maintaining some sort of "presence" in this medium were taking away a lot of the joy of interacting in this way. 

This year I decided that I would start it back up but that I would allow the writing to flow out of the moments of my life that really felt they needed to be written about.  This is not a very good way to get people to regularly check out your blog but it feels more truthful to who I am.

This last month has been really busy.  I've been speaking a lot and new doors seem to keep opening up for that.  I never thought that I'd be a "youth speaker" but as I was telling some of the other pastors at my church the other day I have a wiring for it.  I love the opportunities but I'm glad that I don't have any on my calendar for the next month. 

That's all for today.  I'm enjoying some Rocky Road icecream (yes low fat) and feeling a good burn in my legs from a couple of great runs this weekend. 

Peace,

Tic Long back at Youth Specialties.

Let me first say how stoked I am that this is happening.   Tic Long is returning to Youth Specialties as the Executive Director of Youth Specialties effective immediately.

 

Tic_Long_headshot A funny story that Tic won’t remember but in my mind my first experience with him was not good.  I was a young 24 year old game guy at a camp and half way through a week he came up to be with his church.  His staff had told him that I was being unfair with his kids so he approached me and told me that.  I of course wasn’t super mature and was bugged that this bald headed guy who hadn’t even been here all week was telling me how to do my job.

 

The unfortunate truth is I held a grudge for a couple years about this and I remember going to Youth Specialties events and even telling people what he had done.  But then I got to know people who knew Tic, I got to see how he interacted with youth workers and I began to see his heart. 

God did something with me one day in an elevator at a National Youth Workers Convention in Anaheim.  Tic walked in and it was just he and I in the elevator.  I felt the urge to confess to Tic my hard feelings and so I did and I asked him for forgiveness.   From that point forward I felt that my whole attitude towards Youth Specialties had changed and I began to feel like I was a part of the “tribe” of youth ministry.  I saw Tic in a whole new light and felt like he and the other Youth Specialties elders actually cared about me as a young youth pastor.

 

I have a long history with people at Youth Specialties.  Marko was the first person ever to hire me to do Youth Ministry full-time.  I have both a huge respect and friendship with him.  I’ve been involved in Youth Ministry for a quite a while and this last fall had the opportunity to be at all three of the National Youth Workers conventions.  Truth be told I was originally only scheduled to be at the first one working as a consultant with them but after all the changes started happening I felt like I should be at the others.  So I bought my own ticket and paid my own hotel room in Cincinnati just because I wanted to serve and be with the YS team.  Then in Atlanta they were gracious enough to give me a hotel room and some money so I could eat and I continued being a part of this thing. 

 

In LA this year I was a part of a conversation with several great Youth Workers up in Marko’s suite one night.  Marko went to bed right after we got there but we ended up staying up until 3:00am talking about the history and future of YS and who would be a part of it.   The group that I was with is people I very much admire.  Tash McGill, Adam Mcclane, Mark Riddle, Ryan Smith, Mark Matlock, Aaron Geisler and Mike King.  That was one of the magical nights for me because we had a 4 hour conversation that covered so much ground.  Little did we know how much change was going to happen in the next few months.

 

When Youthworks bought Youth Specialties most of us had no clue what the future would look like. September and October were just not fun months. I had the luck of meeting several of the Youthworks folk though and I found them to be great people. One of their guys even ended up sleeping on my couch for a night.  I think that they have made a great decision here to bring Tic back.  

 

I don’t believe that bringing Tic back is an attempt to relive the glory days of Youth Specialties.  Tic is coming back a different person.  I’m sure he never thought that he’d ever get a chance to be back working for Youth Specialties.  Having something you’ve done your whole life be taken away must have been so tough.  He has to be coming back with a new perspective.  

 

YS is now living in a new reality.  It’s both an old tribe and a new tribe. I think Tic is the right person to bridge that gap.  I’m praying for him as he leads the team and reaches out to new generations of Youth Ministry leaders. 

 

Tic as a fellow Seattle Pacific University graduate and a youth pastor I say welcome back.  And, God is good, all the time.

 

 

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